Quite often the thing that is only can break through this denial is pain.

Quite often the thing that is only can break through this denial is pain.

Connie, we don’t understand as you describe if you have gotten the help you need yet, but I am a 55 year old Christian man who is recovering from abusing my wife in much the same way. Most of the visits from my Pastor and guidance I was doing that we had just didn’t penetrate the strong denial of what. I need to be mindful right here and never state your spouse is a abuser that is domestic but this event you describe is abusive. Being “hurt” you is what I used to do to my wife that he didn’t get his way, then using his anger to belittle and control. (more…)

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